I don’t know about you, but I think it’s so interesting – and key to a better understanding of others – to learn about lifestyles and preferences that are different from my own.
If you’re curious what it’s like to be in a polyamorous relationship – or even to get engaged while you’re in one – you’re in luck, because these 10 people are spilling the tea.
10. Why not do both?
Based on these confessions I’m pretty sure it’s allowed.
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9. There can be a hierarchy.
And everyone has to be ok with it.
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8. As long as you’re all on the same page.
The more love the better!
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7. This sounds hurtful in so many ways.
No matter your preferences, there’s always the opportunity to be hurt.
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6. Some self-examination is necessary.
Proposals are still a big deal!
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5. There are different rules.
And everyone has agreed to them ahead of time.
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4. That seems like it would be hard.
Just something you have to work through, I guess.
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3. One of them had their head on their shoulders.
Never make big life decisions while you’re drunk.
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2. They’re not that different from other relationships.
They all take work and commitment from all parties involved.
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1. That’s a lot of information.
I hope this little family is ready for big changes!
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I wish all of these people the best and hope that love wins in the end.
If you’re in a polyamorous relationship, what does commitment look like for you? Tell us about it in the comments!