I don’t know about you, but I think it’s so interesting – and key to a better understanding of others – to learn about lifestyles and preferences that are different from my own.

If you’re curious what it’s like to be in a polyamorous relationship – or even to get engaged while you’re in one – you’re in luck, because these 10 people are spilling the tea.

10. Why not do both?

Based on these confessions I’m pretty sure it’s allowed.

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9. There can be a hierarchy.

And everyone has to be ok with it.

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8. As long as you’re all on the same page.

The more love the better!

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7. This sounds hurtful in so many ways.

No matter your preferences, there’s always the opportunity to be hurt.

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6. Some self-examination is necessary.

Proposals are still a big deal!

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5. There are different rules.

And everyone has agreed to them ahead of time.

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4. That seems like it would be hard.

Just something you have to work through, I guess.

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3. One of them had their head on their shoulders.

Never make big life decisions while you’re drunk.

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2. They’re not that different from other relationships.

They all take work and commitment from all parties involved.

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1. That’s a lot of information.

I hope this little family is ready for big changes!

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I wish all of these people the best and hope that love wins in the end.

If you’re in a polyamorous relationship, what does commitment look like for you? Tell us about it in the comments!