An au pair is a nanny, but just fancier. They travels with the family to a foreign country to take care of the family’s kids, in exchange for a place to stay, and, of course, money.

What’s the job like? What kind of weird circumstances do they get into? Do they end up screwing the parents?

These 20 people working as au pairs open up about their thoughts, feelings and struggles about their unique line of work.

Eye opening confessions in 3, 2, 1…

20. Haha, you’re not very good at this, are you?

Photo Credit: Whisper

19. Well, it’s a different country and a strange family…

Photo Credit: Whisper

18. Yeah, those aren’t really great years…

Photo Credit: Whisper

17. First affair!

Photo Credit: Whisper

16. “I need to GTFO!”

Photo Credit: Whisper

15. Some au pairs are considered part of the family, eventually. So don’t feel guilty!

Photo Credit: Whisper

14. Yeah, that’s a tough schedule. But that’s the job.

Photo Credit: Whisper

13. THIS!

Photo Credit: Whisper

12. Yeah, the relationship with the parents can make a difference!

Photo Credit: Whisper

11. That’s fair!

Photo Credit: Whisper

10. Ack! Icy heart melting…

Photo Credit: Whisper

9. Fight. That. Urge.

Photo Credit: Whisper

8. Everybody has their reasons!

Photo Credit: Whisper

7. Again… fight those urges!

Photo Credit: Whisper

6. They’ll get over it. Trust me.

Photo Credit: Whisper

5. Ugh. The parents should help out if this kind of stuff happens.

Photo Credit: Whisper

4. This happens A LOT.

Photo Credit: Whisper

3. Yeah, that’s a problem. Tough to talk to them about it, though.

Photo Credit: Whisper

2. ARRGH! Now that’s frustrating AF!

Photo Credit: Whisper

1. Oh, so you get to be the bad guy. That sucks! But, ya know, money…

Photo Credit: Whisper

Again… never develop a crush on the dad. Just don’t do it. That’s like au pair rule #1!