Have you ever started dating somebody only to find out that you’re the side chick?
It’s kind of a weird situation to be in, and some of these folks hate it, while others embrace it.
Check out these 20 stories and tell me you’re not judging just a little bit.
20. Well damn.
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19. Yes, you do.
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18. Well, that’s understandable, actually. Shared trauma brings people together.
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17. Keep those boundaries strong!
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16. Not your fault then!
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15. Well, that happened!
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14. Haha… then DO NOT do that!
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13. Ultimatums!
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12. Side “Chick”
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11. And so it begins…
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10. Yeah, not a bad decision, tbh.
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9. God, what a f*cking scumbag
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8. Good call
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7. I mean, are you though?
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6. Okay, that’s super weird…
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5. HA! Okay, there ya go!
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4. Good luck with that…
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3. Sometimes things just work out like that…
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2. So weird…
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1. Boom.
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Listen, these people deserve whatever they get. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn’t.
But don’t feel sorry for these folks for a second. They made their bed, and they can lie in it.