Have you ever started dating somebody only to find out that you’re the side chick?

It’s kind of a weird situation to be in, and some of these folks hate it, while others embrace it.

Check out these 20 stories and tell me you’re not judging just a little bit.

20. Well damn.

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19. Yes, you do.

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18. Well, that’s understandable, actually. Shared trauma brings people together.

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17. Keep those boundaries strong!

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16. Not your fault then!

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15. Well, that happened!

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14. Haha… then DO NOT do that!

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13. Ultimatums!

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12. Side “Chick”

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11. And so it begins…

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10. Yeah, not a bad decision, tbh.

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9. God, what a f*cking scumbag

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8. Good call

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7. I mean, are you though?

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6. Okay, that’s super weird…

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5. HA! Okay, there ya go!

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4. Good luck with that…

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3. Sometimes things just work out like that…

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2. So weird…

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1. Boom.

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Listen, these people deserve whatever they get. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn’t.

But don’t feel sorry for these folks for a second. They made their bed, and they can lie in it.