As much as we’d like to pretend otherwise – and many of us do to each others faces – there usually are things that we feel we’d like to change about the people we’re with.

Big things, little things. Whatever gets on our nerves. Of course, when giving it a bit more thought we’ll likely come to the conclusion that we should really let it go and learn to love our partner flaws and all, but that doesn’t mean the thoughts will go away.

So where do you share them? Maybe anonymously on the internet, like these people did. What would they change? Let’s find out.

20. Veganism

I mean, you do realize you can eat different foods in the same place right?

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19. Vagueness

You’re so vague. You probably think this post is about you

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18. Mental health

Hey, we’d all love to be able to do that.

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17. Video games

Things like this are tricky because they often exist at the intersection of neglect and neediness.

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16. Self doubt

Believe in yourself!

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15. The loyalty problem

If you mean cheating, then maybe just end it.

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14. Health

Lookin good, feelin good.

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13. Height

She’s dating¬† you and constantly telling you she wishes you were taller? Yikes, dude. That’s weird.

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12. Motivation

It all just goes up in smoke.

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11. Tummy

Beer comes for us all in the end.

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10. Standing up

Why are they like that?

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9. Stubbornness

It can be a benefit at times, but man can it also cause problems.

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8. The drive

Being incompatible in this area can be a real problem.

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7. The butt

Ah yes, stay classy fellas.

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6. Independance

You gotta be able to strike out on your own.

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5. Location, location

Long distance relationships are near impossible to maintain.

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4. Farting

Well that’s interesting.

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3. Affection

Everybody wants to feel wanted.

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2. Understanding

Not feeling understood can make the whole problem even more isolating.

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1. Finances

I feel like he’d be very unhappy to know this.

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You gotta love the ones you’re with, ya dig?

What would you change about your partner?

Tell us in the comments if you dare.