Being a parent is hard work, but it can be really tough if you’ve got a bunch of people around you telling you how to do your job.

And then… there’s the judgement and shaming. It can really get out of control, especially for moms.

Here are 13 moms who have experienced this mommy shaming…

1. What a jerk!

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2. Good for you!

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3. Say what?!?

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4. Sounds like a great lady!

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5. Oh brother…

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6. What the what?!

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7. People got opinions for days…

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8. Hopefully this debate is over. Babies need to eat. Moms should feed them. Period. End of story.

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9. Come on people… it’s called life.

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10. Yeah, they’re gonna pick it up…

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11. Hahahah… jeezus…

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12. My sister was put on a leash back in the day. She turned out fine.

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13. The horror!

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If it’s not your kid and a parent isn’t beating their child… stay out of it.

Seriously.