Finding yourself in the midst of an affair is gonna raise a lot of emotions and a lot of questions.

But what if that affair isn’t even with the gender of person you’re usually with?

Now there are even more questions.

Believe it or not, this happens more often than you’d think. And when it does, there’s a lot to be discovered.

It’s what these women were grappling with when they submitted these real, anonymous posts.

10. Little to say

“I cheated on him with a girl.”

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9. Doesn’t count

I’m gonna go out on a limb and say most people would disagree with you.

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8. Just the fear

It’s great to discover things about ourselves – but talk about timing.

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7. Just experimenting

And it seems like you’ve found some results.

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6. Like a boss

Just careful that fire doesn’t burn too many things down.

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5. Just kidding

All I’m gonna say for y’alls overall relationship is yikes.

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4. All in the family

My eyebrows just shot all the way to the back of my head.

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3. Church girl

It’s all fun and games until it comes crashing down.

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2. Yeah, whatever

I’m a pretty laid back guy with most things but it’s hard to imagine not caring about this.

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1. The best

The things he don’t know could fill a library.

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Salacious, I tells ya. Absolutely salacious.

Have you had an experience like this?

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