I know what you’re after. I know you’re looking to get to the good stuff. But not just yet. Gotta read this intro first. Gotta do a little foreplay – get the mood going.

Because that’s a lot of what these wonderful intimate encounters of ours are. It’s not something to be skipped, but treasured.

Feeling a little insecure about it? No worries. Just listen to some thoughts from a few women on what really gets them going.

10. “Dominating but not aggressive”

It’s a fine line to walk.

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9. “Red & Blue Link”

I have it on good authority that this one is completely universal. Every single woman loves exactly this, no exceptions.

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8. “The most important part”

Kinda like breakfast, I guess.

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7. “He’d use it against me”

I feel like using s** as a bargaining chip in any situation isn’t great.

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6. “Teasing a guy”

Things are getting spicy now.

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5. “He could just stand in front of me”

And now you know what it’s like for us dudes.

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4. “Rough play”

I see what you did there.

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3. “Deep voice moans”

Unless you try to do this and end up sounding like Cookie Monster.

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2. “Being called a good girl”

“I make them good girls go baaaaaad…”

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1. “When he sucks…”

That doesn’t suck.

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Alright then, I hope everyone took notes.

What things really heat you up in the bedroom?

Tell us in the comments.