Hey kids! Do you want to get married someday? Then you better start practicing the horizontal mambo now, because if you get to your wedding night to try and figure it out, there is a very good chance that you’ll be disappointing the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Check out these 12 secrets shared by the people who waited WAYYYY too long to do the deed.

12. Completely agree!

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11. Good for you!

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10. Does he have a low s^x drive or is something else going on? Hmmm…

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9. Differences can be overcome, but it takes time, patience and practice!

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8. Yikes! I wonder if they ended up getting married?

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7. Hahahaha… I bet a lot of people think this!

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6. Oh boy… that’s a bummer.

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5. Spoiler alert: you did miss out.

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4. Wow. Did you have to date people THAT long, tho?

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3. Good life lesson. Don’t repeat it.

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2. Jeezus, it sounds like there’s A LOT more to this story…

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1. If it’s only been 3 months, go to therapy and give it some time.

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So yeah, learn from these people’s mistakes and DO NOT wait until you get married.

Or do and chance it. What do I know? ? ? ?