I’m sure it started out as a cute thing – have a little get together and tell your closest friends and family whether you’re expecting a boy or a girl at birth.

Unfortunately, between wildfires and actual deaths, things have gotten more than a little bit out of control.

Aside from the tragedy, there’s a lot to laugh about, though – just check out these 17 tweets that say exactly what you’re thinking.

17. Probably gluten free, too.

16. They’re going to be so pumped.

15. I admit that’s a lot less interesting.

14. Surprise!

13. That’s gonna be one big cake.

https://twitter.com/Scaachi/status/859106206371241984

12. Now there’s a party I could get behind.

https://twitter.com/kimmouto/status/979726153538654209

11. You gotta let that kiddo be!

10. I was told there would be Nerf guns.

9. Just to cover all of your bases.

8. Simba was the OG gender reveal.

https://twitter.com/davidehrlich/status/1193758746406793216

7. I’m sure everyone was listening.

6. What’s with today, today?

5. I hope there were drugs involved.

4. Wait until you find out about the lasagna.

https://twitter.com/ValeeGrrl/status/867568627637248000

3. That would actually be helpful, though.

2. I can’t believe he didn’t think of it, tbh.

1. I see what she did there.

I am guilty of having cupcakes made, but there were only 8 of us and there was no drama involved. I swear!!!

What do you think about these parties? Drop your thoughts in the comments!