Moving in together is a big step in a relationship, largely because it reveals things about each other you didn’t see or anticipate before. That’s certainly the case with these examples, which just go to show that sharing a home with somebody isn’t a decision to be taken lightly.

Here’s what 10 women had to say about how their boyfriends changed after the move in.

10. Sleepover

Boo for him being so controlling for sure, but, sleepovers? How old are you?

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9. Dogs come first

“So now I am single.” You made the right call.

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8. Domestic bliss

Gonna need a time machine for that, friend.

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7. Absolute panic

Maybe you’re just afraid of what might go wrong.

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6. Coupled up

It’s hard to keep friends as you get older.

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5. Trick or treat

What could account for these kinds of changes?

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4. The naked truth

Now THESE are the kinds of relationship goals we should all aspire to.

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3. Opt out

Sex or lack thereof is an important part of what people need out of a relationship.

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2. Letting loose

I blame all my extra weight on just 2020 in general.

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1. Endless clashes

It’s sad how often you hear this sort of refrain.

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Ultimately, there’s probably no way to know exactly how living together is going to go until you try it. Just make sure you’re reasonably confident that’s what you want to do first. Nobody needs any extra heartbreak in this life.

Do you live with the person you’re dating? How’s it going for you?

Let us know in the comments.