Crushes are funny, often fleeting things. Ya never know when one is going to pop up, or what’s going to make it go away.

But the answers can be pretty shocking once they reveal themselves.

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by inAskReddit

Here are some reasons the guys of Reddit lost that special infatuation with a girl.

1. Hey, I’m right here.

We went out and she did nothing but text other people the whole time.

– aramil2001

2. The call out.

She called me ugly in front of the whole class, I don’t know why I had a crush on her for 2 years.

– cvslfc123

3. A good church girl.

In the scope of a 5 minute conversation, she said both of these conflicting things:

A: she flirts with guys to get them to come to church

B: it bothers her when guys come to church to look for a girlfriend

– gmangriggs

4. Cheater, cheater.

“I actually have a boyfriend but I really like you so I didn’t tell you”

She said this to me after sex.

Later that week she told her boyfriend about cheating. He told her he was also cheating.

She didn’t like that and ended it with him. She wanted to get together with me.

I told her to go f**k herself.

– Heada**McDeada**s

5. The Slasher Returns

She told me she slashed all her exes car tires and laughed like it was a totally hilarious and normal thing to do (granted, he was a d**k).

So I sorta realized she was a bit off and I distanced myself big time after that, to which she angrily responded by slashing my car tires.

– PaleontologistNo7501

6. A special kind of bitterness.

She said she was adamant about the truth then slowly saw her be fake to people.

Would be all about “positivity” then just randomly s**t on people for their small moments of happiness that she didn’t see the big deal in.

– Xionus

7. The Decoy Date

She knew her parents would like me.

So she asked me to come over to meet them… and then to get lost so she could go meet her REAL date whom her parents hated.

– Top-Personality-5665

8. The Cultist

She posted a picture of her in a group of people, with some organization tagged.

I looked at it, and it was a cult.

– DraketheDrakeist

9. Not so sweet after all.

She freaked out at a waitress, because the butter that came separately with the bread had rosemary in it.

The waitress apologized and quickly came back with plain butter. My “crush” then spent the whole meal complaining about the waitress.

I swear I found my “crush” very sweet and nice before that.

– dring157

10. Call me by my name.

In HS. I took her outing a date to eat and she lost her phone. So I was calling in in hopes we could hear it ring.

I heard it, found it, and discovered my contact name in her phone was “free food”. I ate my food, enjoyed dessert and then “ went to the bathroom “ but in actuality I skipped out on her.

During the following week I get lambasted through text about how much of a s**t individual I am. Her dad even shows up at my house and tried to manhandle me.

I told him to ask his daughter why my name in her phone was “ free food”.

So I thought I’d teach her a lesson and that I have a name and I don’t deserve to be called out of my name like that.

– The_EA_Of_Reddit

11. Hyper exclusivity.

When she and her friends got together to start a new cheerleading squad that only they could be in every year.

And then the schools threatened to expel them but ended up doing nothing so there were like 2 cheerleading squads.

– Tundra_Inhabitant

12. Some people just have no empathy.

I’ve never really had full on crushes but there was this one girl who I did like a bit, one time when I was at school I was with my friends and one of them tripped over and was crying because she had done something to her ankle, then we noticed that the girl who I sort of liked and all her friends that were with her were laughing there a**es off while my friend was on the ground with tears streaming down her face.

– RoomyRhymes

13. “I told you.”

She almost threw my cat across the room.

She came over after dinner and we were hanging out, in comes my cat. He doesn’t like being picked up or cuddled, but he will jump in my lap and cuddle me. So I told her that and not to pick him up. She picks him up because “My cat loves it when I do this” and gets in his face, he meowed(warning #1 from him) then she kept doing it and he slapped the s**t out of her.

Then she almost threw him, but I grabbed him and kicked her out with a “I told you”

Never heard from her again and that was 3ish years ago

– yabaquan643

14. Recreational bigotry.

Found out she’s prejudice and hates a certain type of people.

And think it’s fun to make fun of them then pretend she didn’t do it.

– d3adandbr0k3n

15. The Bully

She told me that nobody will ever like/fall in love with me. In front of everyone in class

I had a crush on her for a while in my sophomore year. but when she said that to me she completely ruined my self esteem.

– dusknova6

Yeah, not surprised the feelings didn’t survive long after that.

Have you experienced something like this?

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