How long have you been with your SO? If you answered more than 10 years… bravo! That’s a long time and you probably have done a lot to stay together.

But… sometimes couple date for a long, long, long, long time… and end up breaking up. And it can really mess with people’s head. Because when you’ve been in a relationship with somebody for that long… who are you really?

13 couples reveal what happened after one of them bounced!

1. Winner!

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2. Wait… what?!

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3. So were you really going out for that long??

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4. Stomp on the floor constantly!

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5. Fifteen years is QUITE a long time, tho…

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6. Yeah, this is a bummer…

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7. He does owe you an answer!

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8. Insanity

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9. Maybe just be okay with being alone for a few minutes? Maybe?!?

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10. Well, that’s kind of how it works…

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11. That’s f*cked up.

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12. Get help!

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13. It’s called Tinder…

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Btw, I think it’s completely fine for people to be “dating” for as long as they want. Marriage isn’t always for everybody.

We’re in relationships for a variety of reasons, and some of us don’t want kids. Some of us just want companionship.

And that can take whatever form we’re comfortable with.

#truth

So, what about you? What do you think about all these secrets?

Let us know in the comments!