How long have you been with your SO? If you answered more than 10 years… bravo! That’s a long time and you probably have done a lot to stay together.
But… sometimes couple date for a long, long, long, long time… and end up breaking up. And it can really mess with people’s head. Because when you’ve been in a relationship with somebody for that long… who are you really?
13 couples reveal what happened after one of them bounced!
1. Winner!
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2. Wait… what?!
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3. So were you really going out for that long??
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4. Stomp on the floor constantly!
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5. Fifteen years is QUITE a long time, tho…
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6. Yeah, this is a bummer…
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7. He does owe you an answer!
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8. Insanity
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9. Maybe just be okay with being alone for a few minutes? Maybe?!?
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10. Well, that’s kind of how it works…
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11. That’s f*cked up.
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12. Get help!
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13. It’s called Tinder…
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Btw, I think it’s completely fine for people to be “dating” for as long as they want. Marriage isn’t always for everybody.
We’re in relationships for a variety of reasons, and some of us don’t want kids. Some of us just want companionship.
And that can take whatever form we’re comfortable with.
#truth
So, what about you? What do you think about all these secrets?
Let us know in the comments!