Falling in love can be a wonderful feeling…unless you know right off the bat that it’s with the wrong person.

Like, say, the boyfriend of your best friend. There’s not a lot of good that can come from that, you tell yourself, but your big dumb brain and your stupid little heart say it doesn’t matter, we want what we want.

Of course, wanting isn’t cheating, not at first, so you’ve got some time to consider your next move. What do you do in a situation like this? Here are a few real confessions from women who are mulling it over.

10. “What should I do?”

I wouldn’t even begin to pretend to know how to answer that.

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9. “Trying to compensate.”

Trying to take care of someone and falling for them are very close experiences.

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8. “I can’t tell her.”

No, but I’d imagine she’s going to find out pretty quick.

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7. “I’m married.”

Ya’ll are weaving the most tangled of webs.

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6. “He says…”

Famous first words.

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5. “The thing is…”

So, just, there are no heroes here then.

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4. “I need help.”

Who do you even turn to in a situation like that?

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3. “Poured my heart out.”

That’s what happens when you’re in your cups.

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2. “I almost made them break up.”

Careful, now.

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1. “He’s all I can think about.”

There’s no unringing that bell.

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Pretty steamy. Pretty hard to wrap your head around.

Have you ever been in a situation like this?

Tell us about it in the comments.