Yanno, bein’ hot stuff isn’t always just about the…hot stuff.
All kinds of things can be hot. And when you’re in love, it’s so often the little things.
What is something non-sexual that your partner does that really turns you on?
byu/LorryToTheFace inAskReddit
Here are just a few ways women might be doin’ it for their partners without even realizing it, courtesy of Reddit.
1. The straight face
Immediate straight face when she’s shocked/confused.
Always kills me.
– LittleMacAteBigMac
2. Playing with her hair
Her hair is super long and pretty and she’ll braid it while were watching tv or brushes it and i love it.
– sbashe5
3. The cozy hoodie
My ex would take my hoodies and wear them with her PJs.
Idk why, she would insist on MY hoodies and watching her bundle up on the couch all comfy cozy was just too adorable
– jrocbb
4. Gardening
She comes in the house all sweaty and covered in dirt, her hair a bit disheveled and she smells like wet earth.
Plus watching her bent over the vegetable garden gives me plenty of amazing views.
– kor_hookmaster
5. The night in
For me, it’s when my girlfriend puts in a lot of effort to have a comfy night in.
For her it’s apparently when I put my arm on the back of her seat to back up the car, or when I have to reach up high to grab something (back muscles, I guess?)
– Soulfighter56
6. Workin’ out
When she does physical work or workout.
She positively glows after and I wanna put the kids to bed or send them to grandma’s or just turn the tv on real loud…
– ShaoLimper
7. The tilt
She does this look where she slightly tilts her head and bites her lower lip and it drives me crazy.
– Abysmalmass
8. Bon appetit!
The sound she makes when she takes the first bite of a meal I made her. Dunno why, it just drives me nuts.
– 8andimpala
9. That smile…
When she just looks at me and smiles.
My fiancée is beyond beautiful to me, all the d**n time, and it doesn’t matter if she’s dressed to the nines or in her pyjamas with a sloppy ponytail, the second she smiles at me the rest of the world falls away!
My girls too hot, and I’m one lucky son of a b**ch to have her in my life.
– ReaverRogue
10. My clothes, your clothes
When my girlfriend wears any of my clothes. Idk what it is but f**k it drives me crazy.
She honestly has a better sense of style then I do and I love her in her outfits as well.
But the other night she was wearing my shorts and shirt and I just melted.
– kiwi1325
11. The blush
Playing with her hair and the way she hides her smile when I make her blush.
– thatguyoverthere947
12. Jiggles
The little butt jiggle when she’s putting on pants.
– LeakysBrother
13. The new look
She recently got glasses, and I love when she wears them. Also got a new job where the uniform looks like a barista uniform, and I really love seeing her in it
– little-b**tard-man
14. Deep clean
Wife’s got a pretty juicy butt and when she cleans around the house I get a free show.
– bigpapahugetim3
15. Just messin’ with ya
The way she says “yeah?” after messing with me sometimes. We were friends for years before we dated and I’ve always teased her and I’ve done it so much more since we got together.
The first time she seriously messed with me she made me feel so bad about a joke I made. I thought she was seriously hurt by it and I was almost in tears I felt so bad. She started laughing and said she was just f**king with me. I said something like that was cruel and she said “yeah?” With so much satisfaction and self-pride combined with the most smug smile I’ve ever seen.
If she wasn’t driving I would have thrown myself on her right then. She does it the same way every time and it melts me more and more every time
– N8DuhGr8
16. BRING IT!
I know this will be weird but I love it when my woman starts talking s**t when she plays online games it’s biggest turn on for me she can even talk s**t to me and it’ll turn me on.
– Nooblover420
17. The ritual
If I walk behind her and DON’T grab her butt, she clears her throat in mock disgust, and I must go back for a quick makeout session to make things right.
– Looking4clues_C-137
18. Goodminton
My girlfriend always tells me that she gets turned on watching me play badminton.
Guess who’s never going to stop playing badminton now?
– t**tyf**k_00
19. The caveman
When she comes back home all sweaty from working out in her leotards.
Her: “Ewww, I must smell horrible!”
Me: “Sniff…sniff… I smell woman. Me want woman, NOW!”
– xenosthemutant
20. I pinch
She crab walks (like a defensive slide while opening and closing her hands like claws) in and out of rooms sometimes when it’s just the two of us.
– yungjaquellus
21. The inner child
Acting childish.
We were at Disneyland and I was recording our surrounding and she came bunny hopping into view and starting posing funnily for the camera.
Not really a turn on but something I absolutely adore about her.
– MisterSpreadEm
22. Yes, sir!
She always tells me “You’re the boss!”, although, or more probably because, she knows I won’t take advantage of it.
– mellow_eldritch
23. Focus up
When she’s real focused on something and she bites her fingernails.
– cyainanotherlifebro
24. Morning glory
When I wake up in the morning, and I see her looking at me…
Then she smiles…
Married 31 years and she still amazes me – I am a lucky man.
– daishomaster
25. First blush
Okay hear me out.. Her laugh and her blushing…. I don’t know what it is.
– ballisticpotat0
26. In the hood
When she steals my plain grey hoodies.
Seriously i have no clue why but seeing her in one of those oversized hoodies never fails to put me in the mood and or bring a smile to my face .
– Teyrnon815
27. Being *almost* naked
Panties and a tank top, or just shorts and a tank top. Knowing that one barely there layer of clothing is all that’s hiding the goods.
My girl doesn’t understand. I tell her its like christmas when you’re unwrapping that “one gift” you wanted. The paper is torn and you know by the size, shape and heft thats one thin layer separates you from total joy.
Of course you know what it is. Of course its already yours….but not quite yet!
– Advent_Reaper
28. Snap a pic
Her right after a workout or her post workout selfies cause she knows I love it.
– HorrorNet9710
29. Let’s jam
When she dances and sings along to my music in the passenger seat
– kimchi003
30. Hypothetically speaking
Knowing she might exist one day turns me on so much
– SnooHobbies5910
Oh yeah. That’s the stuff.
What’s something your partner does that always gets you going?
Tell us in the comments.