There might be nothing worse than realizing that the person you’re with doesn’t even really want to be with you.
It doesn’t always end explosively, of course. Sometimes the matter can be amicable and people can just move on.
But at least as often as not, it’s really devastating, especially at the hands of someone who is apparently heartless, even though they had your heart.
This Twitter thread kicked off a long list of such instances, and boy is it a tough read.
When did you realise he hated you??
— OLONI BABY (@Oloni) July 13, 2021
Here are just a few of the stories.
10. The Valentine’s Day Massacre
Don’t know if you can really send a more clear signal than that, my guy.
Spent Valentine’s Day with his girl best friend. When he got home, he put a polaroid picture of them both and a plastic red rose she got him on display on his wall pic.twitter.com/hd35VFxygX
— dais (@daisabenaa) July 13, 2021
9. The Non-Apology
I guess that’s a kind of honesty?
I realized my ex hated me when he cheated on me with a girl who found me on FB and sent receipts of him sending money and seeing her. But instead of apologizing he bought me a bag and a new car and said “I can’t apologize because I did it on purpose”….? pic.twitter.com/qn4C7oDobN
— Brown & Bougie (@Alidikoh) July 13, 2021
8. The Easter Power Move
That feels like it should be a joke, but apparently it’s not.
I was presented with a box that held beautiful diamond earrings……then was asked to put them in….HIS ears…on Easter….which that year happened to fall ON MY BIRTHDAY!!!! I got nothing….not even his presence at Easter/birthday dinner……we were married…..lol
— InsertNameHere (@mynamehere46) July 13, 2021
7. The Renter
That’s about the epitome of ingratitude right there.
When my ex lost his job. I found a job as a waitress to support our son. I rented and bought him food. Found him one time with a girl in bed in a house I was renting for his unemployed ass
— Cindy (@Cindy87798017) July 16, 2021
6. Half Stranded
I feel like offering to help is something you do for ANYONE in this situation.
I drove 5 hours to him & ended up getting stranded half way cuz my car broke down. I called him to tell him & all he said was “damn” . Didn’t offer to come pick me up, didn’t offer any resolutions , nothing … Ended up waiting in the nearby train station for hours …
— IfeSzn (@IfeSzn) July 14, 2021
5. Happy Anniversary
That’s not much of a gift.
The nigga broke up with me a week before our 3 year anniversary went on vacation with me after, and was talking to his boo on FT in front of me while we was there. I’m stupid ? pic.twitter.com/c05rXdBz8k
— Tavi (@YoungGonzales_) July 14, 2021
4. The Joke
Yeah, that’s not what that is. That’s horrible.
me & this dude i was talking to would bicker over little things (almost like siblings). after another petty argument, he thought he’d “lighten the mood” wit a “joke” and said if he ever saw a group of men trying to take advantage of me, he’d stop, laugh, and keep walking.
— ? (@sycuhdelik) July 15, 2021
3. The Writer
Why so critical? That’s a heck of an accomplishment.
I told him that I was working on a screenplay and he said “Oh okay. Good for you.”, and laughed. 3 months later he asked how it was going in a mocking tone and when I said it was actually my 3rd and I have others that just need to be typed up, he whispered, “Ohhhh, I hate you.”? pic.twitter.com/OMCcbCc2cO
— Jaclyn Jemison (@JemisonJaclyn) July 13, 2021
2. The Stroke
He didn’t bother to call around?
Ended up in the hospital with a freak stroke at 27, The guy I was seeing got pissed I never called while recovering in the hospital, didn’t have a charger for my phone, and it took me three days to find his work number in the phonebook. Left a message about where I was.
— Stranger1Angel (@Jizbeano1) July 15, 2021
1. The Control Freak
All red flags.
He never went out with me, always demanded that I cancel my plans whenever he wants to see me. He never got me a gift but he wanted me to buy him gifts. Forced me into sleeping with him and after breaking my virginity he claimed that I wasnt a virgin coz I wasnt tight enough?
— lulu caty (@nana66560) July 14, 2021
Yikes. Good on you getting away, sorry you all had to experience that.
Have you had a moment like this?
Tell us in the comments.